So this week I had a question from Mark, he chatted me up on Skout to ask how to end a relationship with a girl he had been seeing for a few months. He thought it was best to just stop talking to her.
I thought it would be best to share what I told him with all of you, just in case anyone else was thinking they would “just stop talking to the person”.
Here’s the deal, whether it’s an online only relationship or one in the physical world you have put some time into it, they have put some time into it – maybe a few days, a few months or even a few years, so you owe the person, and yourself, an actual end. In other words, don’t just stop talking to them, end it in a mature way that will give both of you some closure.
There are hundreds of reasons why a relationship ends; someone cheats, you find someone else, you grow apart…whatever it is there needs to be closure. Tell the person, in an email or in person, that you have moved on or that you don’t trust them anymore or whatever the case may be. Don’t just ignore them, that degrades the time they and you spent on the relationship. Think about it from your point of view, wouldn’t you rather know the relationship was over as opposed to just guess?
Skout Wing Gal – Keeping it Real